If you're a fan of Modern Family or you're a die-hard member of Bachelor Nation, it's no breaking news that Sarah Hyland and Wells Adams are an item — and pretty smitten, at that. Since their love story sparked with millennial new-age social media flirting back in October, the two have been very public about their relationship, posting Snapchats and Instagram Stories posing in front of helicopters and cuddling naked in bed together.
And par for the course as far as #RelationshipGoals are concerned, Hyland and Adams have just taken their relationship one step cuter by coordinating their skin-care routines. Because as the saying goes, couples that mask together, stay together...or at least have clearer and brighter skin together.
From their Instagram Stories, we gathered that this year Hyland and Wells spent their first Christmas together as a couple. But it wasn't a fancy black-tie affair or surprise helicopter ride over SoCal for the holiday. Instead, the two kicked it low-key at home. Adams shared a selfie on his Instagram story showing the two nestled into the couch, wearing what seem to be brown fuzzy doggie onesies and some variation of K-beauty sheet masks over their faces. "Onesies and flaskmasks. @sarahhyland is in heaven," Adams captioned the selfie.
We're assuming "flaskmasks" was a typo, and Adams meant to write "face masks." But if flaskmasks really are a thing, we want to know about them (let us known, Wells).
Honestly, we have to agree with Hyland: Face masks and onesies are kind-of what our holiday heaven looks like, too. And having someone to take a flawless skin selfie with — well, that's just icing on the Christmas cookie.
With the holidays behind us and New Year's Eve just around the corner, a home makeover might be what you need to usher in some good luck and positive vibes. After all, if your wardrobe is getting a festive update and you're contemplating a trendy hairdo for 2018, why shouldn't you be jazzing up your space too?
Fortunately, an interior makeover doesn't necessarily mean a gut renovation that costs a fortune: Small upgrades — from swapping out your flatware collection to investing in a nicer set of coasters — can go a really long way. Ahead, we've rounded up 10 inexpensive upgrades from Jet.com to keep your living space refreshed for the year ahead. Your home deserves to be filled with just as many positive vibes as possible, and these little things might just help get you there.
With gold-toned accents and a marble base, this sophisticated table lamp looks a lot more expensive than it actually is.
These days, the thought of flipping through a cookbook — let alone purchasing one to use, rather than just take up space on your coffee table — seems a bit dated. Unless your keen to tradition, why waste more time than necessary when you have a smartphone, tablet, or, even better, high-tech digital assistants that can pull up recipes for you? Google in particular is a great online resource, housing tons of recipe searches (granted, some are better than others) at absolutely no cost. Talk about an incentive!
Curious to know what other foodies around the country are into? You're in luck. Google just released its annual Year In Search report, which happens to include the top ten most searched recipes of 2017. Sorry avocado fans, guacamole didn't make the cut this time around. But the dishes that did are just as delicious — and definitely not what you'd expect.
10. Hashbrown Casserole Although not quite as popular as last year, apparently hashbrown casserole still ranks high as a comfort food people love to crave and for good reason. After all, we've never met a potato we didn't like — especially ones that are shredded and covered in mounds of gooey cheese.
9. Yams While some take the sweet, old-fashioned route with brown sugar, cinnamon, and marshmallows, others prefer their yams savory — either way, they sure taste good.
7. Pork Chops Pork chops is another dish that made its way onto Google's list and many, many plates for the second year in a row. Not surprising, seeing as though the chops are quick to make and can take on any flavor imaginable.
5. Zucchini From baked chili to crispy-coated fries, the possibilities for this magical fruit (yes, fruit, since it technically has seeds) are endless.
3. Corn Casserole Corn by itself is already a pretty solid side dish, but add some sour cream and a pack of muffin mix and you've got yourself a holiday classic.
2. Apple Crisps Warm, crumbly, apple-flavored goodness a.k.a the main dessert that seemed to be on Google users’ minds in 2017, coming your way at number two.
1. Beef Stroganoff This Russian delicacy has been popular in the states for decades. And yet, to our surprise, here it is (again), sneaking up to claim its victory.
Going home for the holidays can get boring, fast. The first few days you reconnect with friends from high school, chat with relatives you haven't seen in a year, and drink through your parents' wine rack — but then, it's suddenly over. Once the candles are lit and the presents are unwrapped, what else is there to look forward to? Well, we have one idea.
Sure, you can sleep in until noon, binge The Crown, reorganize your childhood bedroom... or you can use all those extra hours to finally get that tattoo you've been wanting. Winter break is the perfect time for fresh ink — since you have plenty of time to research an artist, don't have to squeeze in your appointment after work, and can sit around and do nothing while it heals.
Getting a tattoo requires a lot of thought before booking your appointment. So, just in case you can't make up your mind on what tattoo to get, or need a little inspiration before going under the needle, we've rounded up the raddest designs we can't stop eyeing on Instagram right now.
Click ahead to check out our editor-approved tattoos we're bound to get over the holiday break.
"I really love tattoo artist Rosa Bluestone Perr's delicate hand-poked tattoos. My friend Michelle just got a tattoo from her, and ever since I've been seriously considering getting my second tattoo from Perr. She creates her own designs, and I'm really into the minimal drawings she has of animals with halos around their heads. I've been wanting to get a cat tattoo on my rib cage or shoulder blade for a while now, and I think she's the only one who could do it justice." — Mi-Anne Chan, Beauty Writer
"I love Eva at Bang Bang's landscapes — they're like little circles of utopia. I'd get the view from Mulholland drive, where I grew up. " — Alix Tunell, Senior Beauty Editor
"I've been removing a poorly-done horse tattoo on my neck for over two years now and I'm hitting my breaking point. Now that most of it's gone, I've realized what I really want is the same idea done right this time — by an artist who won't agree to work on a drunk 18-year-old just tasting college freedom and who understands that 'a small, delicate horse' requires shadowing, not filling in an outline in solid black ink." — Tunell
"I'm one of the only people in L.A. I know who doesn't have a tattoo — so let's be honest, I'm not actually going to get this — but I have been incredibly drawn to simple, single-needle constellations lately. Doctor Woo told me that a lot of people anchor them around a mole, which I think is a really rad way to try the look." — Lexy Lebsack, Senior Beauty Editor
"Pet faces are a huge trend in the tattoo world right now, but I doubt anyone could capture the beauty of my queen. Well, except maybe Doctor Woo." — Lebsack
"The outline of my home, California, could be pretty rad, too. Okay, maybe I will finally take the plunge..." — Lebsack
"New York City's skyline has pretty much made an appearance on my feed every other week for the last six years of my life, so you could say I’m a fan. If I were ever to profess my love in a more permanent way, though, this is how I would do it: with a clean, simple outline of all my favorite buildings." — Kelsey Castañon, Beauty News Editor
"I've dreamed of getting my first tattoo done by Madame Buraka — first, I just have to book a trip to Europe. But her designs are genuine pieces of art, any of which I'd be proud to wear forever." — Samantha Sasso, Beauty Editorial Assistant
"The ocean has always been a place where I connect to myself, my home (Southern California), and my faith. I love this teeny tiny wave tattoo, but the real question is: Where will I put mine?" — Cat Quinn, Beauty Director
"Kanye, my dog of 11 years, passed away a few months ago. I’m still devastated and am always looking through my camera roll for old photos of him. He was a 15-pound Yorkie but had the heart of a pit bull… and the temper of one, too. I still have tiny scars on my right hand from where he bit me. To remember him — and to cover them up — I’d connect them into a shape like this heart key… that way, he’ll always be with me." — Khalea Underwood, beauty writer
"I always knew I could never overthink what tattoos I should get, but a Zodiac sign — either mine or of someone I loved — would be cool." — Sasso
"I want this, but instead of Miley's dog, I want it to be my dog." — Rachel Krause, Beauty Writer
"I've never really been one to pay close attention to what my Zodiac sign may or may not mean, but after moving away from home that's all changed. A lot of close people in my life are Geminis, including myself, my mom, other family members, and tons of friends. What they say is true: We're expressive and quick-witted, inspiring and never boring. What better way to honor all that than with a tattoo?" — Brianna Arps, production assistant
"I have no tattoos, but if I ever did decide to get one, it would definitely be tiny and probably somewhere inconspicuous, like on my ankle. I think this little constellation of stars is adorable, and doesn't really connote any kind of bigger meaning than that." — Megan Decker, Beauty Production Assistant
"I'm obsessed with this one — it's the perfect minimalist tattoo. It's really small and could be covered with a few bracelets or my shirt sleeve... but I think I'd actually want people to notice this one." — Decker
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On the days we don't feel like spending the time and energy picking out an outfit and really just want someone to tell us what to wear (please, we beg you!), nothing beats a well-made, eternally-elegant shirt to help us power through. As the basis for any wardrobe, the power of the crisp button-up is that it is forever chic and incredibly versatile. It can be dressed up with a tux or killer suit, or tuck into your favorite mom jeans and worn with sneakers. Either way, it's the quickest way to look and feel instantly smart.
Crisp and white, oversized and striped, silk, or poplin, we've tracked down the brands that have perfected the classic shirt. Sure, some may be a bit of an investment, but for a top you can basically wear every day of the week, it's more than worth it. Click ahead for six no-fail button-ups to add to your wardrobe now. There's nothing like starting the year off fresh, eh?
With Nothing Underneath Noticing a gap in the market for reasonably-priced, high-quality shirts, former Tatler editor Pip Durell and friend Lucy Kingsman launched With Nothing Underneath just a few months ago. Designed in London, inspired by men's tailoring, and modeled by Louise Follain (anything she wears, we want), stock up on WNU's luxurious shirts while the brand is still relatively under-the-radar. Their classic shirts are perfect for anyone who adores the style of Jane Birkin, Charlotte Rampling, and Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy.
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Margaret Howell A master of minimalism, we can always rely on Margaret Howell for timeless, well-crafted tops. For endless options, from silk and sheer cotton to chambray and cashmere gauze, the beloved London-based brand has you covered.
Equipment While Margaret Howell is one of our favorite British brands when it comes to shirting, Equipment reigns supreme in France. This white and black thin-striped signature button-up is a modern classic. Wear with pinstriped trousers and a statement bag, or tucked into a colorful midi-skirt.
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Today: a self-described digital nomad who makes $70,000 per year. This week, she spends some of her money on fruit.
Monthly Expenses Housing Costs: I try to keep it around $800 per month. Usually, I rent monthly Airbnbs (private rooms, not whole houses) but sometimes I get lucky. I just stayed with my BFF in NYC for a month for free. Loan Payments: $0. I got my associate's degree from a local community college, paid cash, and did not pursue a bachelor's.
All Other Monthly Expenses T-Mobile International Plan: $117 401(k): 16% pre-tax into my 401(k), plus a company match of 2% Savings: $600. ($200 of this is diverted into my Vanguard account. Because my lifestyle is kind of odd, I like to have a lot of cash on hand. I may also purchase a rental condo within the next year, so I am stockpiling for a down payment.) Netflix: $10
Day One
8:30 a.m. — I arrived in Lisbon last night around midnight and then couldn't fall asleep until about 2 a.m. (New place, noisy street, etc.) I ambitiously set my alarm for 8:30, but immediately turn it off and fall back asleep.
11:30 a.m. — I finally wake up! Part of me wants to get out and explore the city ASAP, but I've had a busy, stressful few months, and I tell myself to chill out, wake up slowly, and have a relaxing morning. The room I have here in Lisbon seemed fine last night, and it looks even nicer in the light of day — high ceilings and big windows. I'm excited for the next few weeks! I work remotely, so for the past year, I have changed location every two months or so, and I love it! Although I prefer the term "location independent worker," I think "digital nomad" is the trendier term for my lifestyle.
12:30 p.m. — I'm finally dressed, organized, and ready to explore! The girl I'm staying with came home LATE last night and is still asleep. I write her a quick note saying hi and then head out. I pay to hop on the subway to the Baixa district, which I believe is quite touristy. That's fine for me on day one of a new city! I plan to do a free walking tour at 3 p.m., but I want to explore a bit on my own first. The city is gorgeous — warm and sunny, full of colorful weather-worn buildings, cobblestones, and street art. $1.70
1:30 p.m. — I discover the Time Out Market and pop in. It's super overwhelming, with electronic music pumping and people everywhere. I grab a pastel de nata and an espresso ($4.11) and eat standing at the counter. The pastry is AMAZING! I've never had one before and expected them to be average, but wow, I can see why everyone loves them. Afterwards, I wander down a super touristy promenade and stop to try on clothes. I am newly single after six years (ugh), so I buy a low-cut white top for future dates (eek!). $19.36
2 p.m. — T., an old friend who is on vacation in Lisbon, message me on WhatsApp to ask if I want to go to brunch at 4:30 instead of going on my walking tour. I agree, and then discover that "Brunch" is the name of a weekly outdoor rave. It's not my usual scene, but whatever. I need to go back home to change clothes, so I stop in the mini-market to grab food for a quick lunch. I get eggs, butter, a tomato, an onion, a crusty roll, a croissant, and a pack of gum. I'm happy with how affordable the store is, since it is the one closest to my house. I dash home, make a quick omelet with toast, and freshen up for the party. $3.99
4:30 p.m. — I meet T. at his hostel and give him €20. The ticket was only €15, so he covers a couple of beers, a shot of whiskey, and my bus fare to the rave. It turns out we are tagging along with some of the hostel employees, and it's kind of cool to hang out with native Lisboans on my first day here. It takes FOREVER to get to Brunch, but when we do, it is pretty cool: a clearing in the woods ringed with beer stands, a huge dance floor, and a DJ on a stage. People of all ages are in attendance; there is even a bounce house filled with kids. We dance for hours, and the vibe is chill. We stay until the party is over and walk out, feet aching and super hungry. $23.48
12 a.m. — In a city with so much good food, this is a super embarrassing purchase: We stop at a fast-food joint and I get a fucking cheeseburger for dinner. Boooooo. I trade a bite of my burger for some of T.'s french fries. I'm exhausted! My plan for Lisbon was lots of sleep, waking up early to do cultural activities, and a big push for sales at my day job. So far, things are not going according to plan... $4.10
12:30 a.m. — Google tells me that the bus will take over 40 minutes to bring me home, so I opt for an Uber. My driver is pretty friendly (although he also seems stoned), and he tells me a bunch of places I need to visit. I'm all ears! Usually, I enjoy researching locales before I arrive, but I have been so busy that I haven't time to look into Lisbon at all. I get home, and my flatmate is there! We finally get to meet in person. We chat for a little bit; she is cool and easygoing, and it seems that we will have opposite schedules, which is good and bad. I wash my face, brush my teeth, and fall into bed. $8.22
Daily Total: $60.85
Day Two
8:30 a.m. — Alarm rings. I shut it off without a second thought and go back to sleep. This pattern has to stop, but today is not the day.
12 p.m. — I'm finally up and out of bed! I think my long day yesterday plus lingering jet lag knocked me out. I'm starving and have to be on a work call at 2 p.m., so I Google nearby coffeeshops with food. I get dressed and walk about a mile to a gorgeous lookout point. After admiring the view, I walk into a very traditional looking café with dark wood paneling, dusty liquor bottles, and elderly people sipping espressos. The barista is blasting Metallica, though, as I order a spinach and couscous salad, and a café Americano, answer emails, and hop on the call. After I'm done, I have a moment of panic — the café doesn't take foreign cards and I've left my cash at home! The proprietor isn't fazed and tells me to come back with the money when I can. I offer to leave collateral, but he won't take anything. "We trust you," he says. I thank goodness for kindness and rush home.
3:30 p.m. — I walk the mile back home, grab cash, walk another mile back to the café and pay for my meal. The total comes out to about $8, but I leave $11.74 as a thank you. (Tipping in cafés is customarily 0%-5% here.) As I walk back to my house, I realize I have already walked over four miles today. In light of that fact, I stop and purchase a box of pastries to eat when I get home. For $4.07, I get two pastels de nata, four long crunchy butter cookies, and two large square butter cookies dipped in chocolate. Yum! Once I get home, it's right to work. $15.81
8 p.m. — I snack on an apple and a few of the cookies as I continue to work. I am meeting T. for dinner at 9:30, but I'm starving now. Having a friend who is on vacation here has definitely increased my spending and disrupted my schedule this week, but the tradeoff is worth it. Working from this house is nice — there is a pretty balcony and the Wi-Fi is fast — but it sure is loud; screaming babies, conversations in all sorts of languages, motorcycles speeding by. I love it!
12:30 a.m. — I end up being very busy at work today, but it pays off with a sale that is 25% of my annual goal! Because of that, I'm late to leave for dinner and opt for an Uber instead of the 35-minute walk. I meet T. at a tiny seafood place in Chiado. It is adorable, and we share a cheese plate, garlic shrimp, fantastic octopus, and a bottle of amazing, dry white wine. I pay $29.35 for my half. T. and I both coached MMA at the same gym and we go back about 10 years. We talk shit about our exes and exchange gym gossip as we eat. After, we meet up with folks from his hostel and drink €1 beers at a lovely mirador overlooking the city. At midnight, I decide I need to get home, and I Uber once more. I'm conscientious of how much money I'm spending, but I think it's worth it to spend time with an old friend. The song "Wonderful World" comes on as I ride home, and I feel lucky and grateful. $44.80
Daily Total: $60.61
Day Three
8:30 a.m. — Alarm sounds at 8:30 a.m. I shut it off but still manage to be up and about by 10 a.m. I'm not hungry, but I make an egg with toast and tomatoes and eat it anyway so that I don't buy breakfast out. I'm visiting the National Tile Museum today (I love tile!) and then plan to wander a bit and grab lunch somewhere pretty.
12 p.m. — The museum isn't too far, so I decide to walk so I can see more of the city. At the museum, I pay admission; there are lots of beautiful azulejos on display, as well as cool temporary exhibits by Japanese ceramic artists celebrating the relationship between the two countries. I have worked in the tile industry for most of my career, and I love seeing how old materials like these continue to influence contemporary tile trends and aesthetics. $5.90
1 p.m. — I hop on a bus ($2.30) to one of the high streets and disembark about 15 minutes later. In between taking photos of street art, yellow trams, and beautiful tile, I pop into a clothing shop called Bershka. I liked a skirt I saw there the other day, but they didn't have my size. Luck is on my side, because they do have the skirt, and it fits perfectly! I try to only buy clothes if they fill a big hole in my wardrobe, and this knee-length, pleated skirt definitely does ($29.49). $31.79
2 p.m. — I stop by a cute café for lunch. The man behind the counter is stern, and I panic order a pastry and a coffee because I feel rushed. Once I have collected myself, I return to the counter and ask for a vegetable soup. After I'm done, I get a second coffee and sip it as I spend time editing a few photos to post on Instagram, answering work emails, and WhatsApping with different groups of friends. $4.80
3 p.m. — I catch the subway back to my neighborhood and set myself up on the balcony with my laptop and a big glass of water. Lisbon has some of the steepest hills I've ever seen, and all the walking has made me thirsty. My company's offices are closed today for a meeting, so I get a lot of stuff coming my way from clients who can't reach their usual salesperson. I'm happy to help out my colleagues since being busy makes the time fly. I continue to message friends from home. It feels nice to stay in the loop even though I am far away. $2.30
7:30 p.m. — My cash is running low and the ATMs are being a little temperamental with my card, so I want to conserve what I have. I buy garlic naan from the chicken restaurant next door and make scrambled eggs with tomato and onions. My flatmate gets home, and we chat about the economy in Portugal, the high cost of education in the States, and our recent breakups. After, I log back on to finish my last three hours of work. I'll try to be in bed by midnight tonight. $1.77
Daily Total: $46.56
Day Four
8:30 a.m. — I gave up hitting snooze and turned off my alarm before bed last night; this morning, I wake up at 8:30 on the dot without it! T. and I text about going to the beach, but I decide not to since the trip would make my day too hectic. I sit in bed for a while longer, browsing on my Kindle for a new book and enjoying the fresh air and the sounds coming from the street below.
11 a.m. — First order of business is to get cash. Thank goodness the ATM closest to my house decides to accept my card! I decide to go to Carmo Convent (the remnants of a Gothic cathedral that was partially ruined in an earthquake), and purchase a round trip subway ticket ($3.35). The entrance fee is $6, and the convent is beautiful! There are a bunch of South American artifacts and two Peruvian mummies inside, and I wonder about the ethics of these cultural objects being in Portugal. I have a friend who specializes in antiquities trafficking (working against it, not for it!), and I tell myself to ask her for her opinion later. $9.35
12 p.m. — The back of the convent opens up into a patio with a gorgeous view of the city. There is a café there that looks so tempting. I assume it is a tourist trap, but I look it up online and the reviews aren't bad. They are playing Buddha Bar on the radio, there is a seat in the shade, and the view is amazing, so I decide to stay. I order an Americano and tomato bruschetta. I mostly admire the view, but I also email my mom some of my photos from the trip and send them to a WhatsApp group chat with friends. It is so relaxing. $10.65
1:30 p.m. — It's such a pretty day that I don't want to work, but I must. I use the subway card I bought earlier to get home. I have a sweet tooth, so I stop and pick up fruit from a street vendor: three clementines, two pears, and a mango. I set myself up on the patio with water and the clementines, and by 2 p.m., I'm making phone calls and answering emails. $1.75
5 p.m. — I'm starving and pop down the street to pick up a rotisserie chicken. The chicken place is closed, and the next three cafés I visit have all finished with food service for the day. I'm getting desperately hungry and I need to make work calls. I grab my laptop and walk 20 minutes to the café where I had the couscous salad the other day and order the same thing. I sit down and try to settle in, but one minute later, a huge, noisy tour group is led in by a guide. Le sigh. I guess today won't be as productive as I hoped. I kick myself for not planning better. $8.89
6:45 p.m. — The café wasn't so bad in the end. The group only stayed about 15 minutes, and I had a nice chat with the guide. On my way home, I stop by a lookout point and watch the sun set. There is a girl with a guitar singing songs in Portuguese, and lots of people hang around drinking beers; it is really nice. I buy a savory chicken pastry and a pastel de nata to eat as I head home to finish work. $2.43
9:30 p.m. — I cut out of work at 9:30 to go to a Couchsurfing party at a little outdoor bar near Time Out. I've never used Couchsurfing as a travel resource before, but I've heard their events are fun, and this one totally is. It's a few, casual hours of meeting new and friendly people from all over the world and a lot of locals. Being from D.C., I was worried that everyone would want to talk politics with me but no one did, thank god. T. ended up stopping by as well, and we both had a great time. I took the metro there ($1.40), but had to Uber back home ($6.27). I bought two small beers for myself (€1 each!) and a large one for T. in exchange for some of his cigarettes ($4.60). I make it back home around 1:30 a.m., happy, relaxed, and ready for bed. I chat with some of the girls online and then pass out. $12.27
Daily Total: $45.34
Day Five
9 a.m. — I wake up fairly early considering how late I stayed out last night. I eat a pear from my fruit stash and drink water. I planned to spend the day relaxing at home and reading my book, but my mind keeps drifting toward my ex. If I stay here alone, it will just turn into a pity party, so I get dressed and get ready to go out.
12 p.m. — There is a café I keep hearing about called Tease. It is a little inconvenient to get to, but I decide it is a perfect destination for today since I didn't plan on accomplishing anything else anyway. I take the subway ($1.40) and walk about 20 minutes to get there. When I arrive, it is adorable! Shabby-chic decor, nice music, hip people working on laptops. I order an Americano and a veggie burger ($11.86), then sit for awhile and read. The food is great, and I am stuffed. I walk to a lookout point nearby and enjoy the view, then head back home to read my book for a bit before work. Pity party successfully avoided. $13.26
4 p.m. — I have therapy today, and I have really been looking forward to it. We missed last week because of an issue with my insurance, and I have a lot I want to talk about. Since I travel so much, I use an app to meet with my therapist online via video chat. Talking to a professional really helps me sort out my thoughts and emotions, and I wish it was accessible to everyone. This visit costs $95, but is entirely paid for my by health insurance. Afterwards, I eat the last pear and get back to work.
6 p.m. — I enjoy eating out a lot my first few days in a city, and I consider it part of exploring a new place. But now that I've been here almost a week, I need to get serious. I do my first big grocery trip and get coffee, chicken breast, dried pasta, couscous, a can of tuna, a small carton of béchamel sauce, a tomato, goat cheese, rice cakes, mushrooms, broccoli, a can of Coke, a bottle of wine, eggs, a crusty roll, a pastel de nata, garlic, raspberries, muesli, Greek yogurt, soap, and dental floss. Once I get home, I snack on the goat cheese, tomato, and a rice cake. I throw together pasta with chicken, mushrooms, broccoli, onions, and garlic, and make a white wine and béchamel sauce. The neighbors are blasting Eminem; so much nostalgia for me! I finish my last few hours of work and snack on the pastel de nata. I don't consider myself a very good cook, but I like the food that I make, and it feels good to eat some of MY food again. $31.97
9 p.m. — My roommate comes home, and we sit on the patio for a few hours drinking wine and chatting. We get a craving for something sweet and put goat cheese and honey on top of rice crackers. At 2 a.m. the neighbors yell at us for playing music too loudly, so we head to bed.
Daily Total: $45.23
Day Six
10 a.m. — Ugh. I sleep late and wake up feeling sick from all the heavy food yesterday (a fried veggie burger and huge plate of pasta). Instead of eating breakfast, I drink two cups of coffee at home. I'm getting dinner with T. tonight, so I start work a few hours earlier than usual in order to finish up in time.
1:30 p.m. — After a few hours of work, I shower, get dressed, and finally have an appetite. I eat a bowl of Greek yogurt with raspberries and muesli. I thought the yogurt was plain, but it turns out to be vanilla flavored, which is a fantastic surprise!
4:30 p.m. — After snacking on rice cakes with goat cheese and tomato, I decide to make actual lunch — diced mushrooms, potato, and onion with two eggs and bread. I also contact my realtor about a condo I see for sale online in my hometown. I've been looking to buy a rental property to bring in extra income, and this place seems perfect! She agrees, and I get the ball rolling with my lender! Afterwards, I get a craving for something sweet; I drink the can of Coke I bought yesterday.
9 p.m. — I log out of work, change clothes, and head to T.'s neighborhood on the subway ($1.40). We go to a little place around the corner from his hostel that is famous for their octopus rice! We get the rice, squid, fresh cheese, bread, and a bottle of wine; everything is amazing. ($25.55) As we are finishing up, a group of people from his hostel show up with beers. We all sit around talking for awhile, then head to a pastry shop to buy dessert. ($1.20) Meanwhile, I sign off on an offer letter for the condo! Woohoo! I've been interested in creating multiple income streams for awhile, and this unit seems like a great opportunity. We end up on a street full of young people, drinking beers and socializing. I manage to make it home on the last subway train of the night. ($1.40) I call my mom and dad to tell them about the condo, then fall asleep around 2 a.m.! $29.55
Daily Total: $29.55
Day Seven
11 a.m. — I wake up late after my late night out. I normally only have three or four drinks a month, so this week has done a number on my body, and I resolve to calm down a little with the wine. I make coffee and eat yogurt, muesli, and raspberries on the patio, and read a bit of my book. I message with T. since we are going to the beach later today, but there is no rush to get going.
1:30 p.m. — I pick up T. up at his hostel. The guy who works there tries to play a "hilarious" joke on me by pretending that T. checked out a few days ago. I might have fallen for it if I hadn't been messaging with T. all morning. We hop on the train to the beach. It's a really cloudy day but still feels warm enough to lay out. $3.24
2 p.m. — We arrive, and the beach is so pretty! It's sandy and big, with small waves and a few sailboats in the distance. We stop and grab ham and cheese croissants, and I get an espresso before heading over to lay out our towels. We people-watch and chitchat for a few hours, and I message back and forth with my realtor about the property. The selling agent is being super slow getting us the documents we need, which gives me time to second-guess, freak out, and overanalyze my decision. Luckily, my realtor is also a friend who doesn't mind having to do a bit of handholding. $2.19
5 p.m. — We really didn't plan this beach day very well as far as snacks are concerned. I need to use the restroom, so I buy a tuna sandwich at a nearby café for us to split. As the sun sets, T. listens to music and I take a call to catch up with a girlfriend living in Cairo. It is absolutely gorgeous, but we plan to come back again tomorrow when it is supposed to be sunnier. $4.49
8 p.m. — We walk to meet some folks at the Time Out food hall for dinner. It is pricy and tourist-trappy, but some of T.'s friends want to go. I debate getting a snack here and then eating dinner when I get home, but I get hangry and just go for it. I get seafood rice and a glass of white wine, and the food is delicious, but very rich ($15.12). Afterwards, they head to a bar to watch soccer, and I go home to review and sign my offer letter on the condo! ($1.40 metro) $16.52
Daily Total: $26.44
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You don't have to be a professional esthetician to get your hands on acids anymore — the same potent ingredients that were once considered too potent for at-home use are now a mainstay of our bathroom shelves. Sephora has over a thousand products containing the word acid; Ulta Beauty has nearly 500, and they can all be shipped to your home with just a few clicks of the Add to Cart button. But are they as safe and beneficial for everyone as the product description insists?
First things first: It's important to understand the distinctions between acids, because they are not all made alike. "There are different kinds of acids used in skincare, and some are very beneficial," says celebrity facialist and dermatologist Dr. Barbara Sturm, who launched her own eponymous skin-care brand in 2016. "For example, hyaluronic acid, which helps refill the skin's moisture reservoirs due to its very high ability to bind water. It's a natural component of our skin, and its production diminishes with age, but we can replenish it through topical application or supplemented oral intake."
And then there are AHAs (alpha-hydroxy acids) and BHAs (beta-hydroxy acids). "All acids have an exfoliating effect, but AHAs can be used by all skin types, while BHAs are good for people with problematic skin as they have an antibacterial effect and prevent clogged pores," says Lixir Skin founder Colette Haydon. "Each acid offers a special benefit: Lactic acid improves hydration, lactobionic acid reduces oxidative stress (which makes your skin look dull and grey), and phytic acid eliminates heavy metals to detoxify the skin. Salicylic acid is antibacterial and prevents clogged pores, and azelaic acid controls sebum."
When there are so many options, how do we know what will work for our skin type? Should someone with sensitive skin be using their acid of choice as much or in as high a concentration as someone with dry skin? And does age play into it at all? "The 'good' acids like hyaluronic acid or citric acids support the skin with moisture, strong anti-oxidative effects, and other valuable benefits," Dr. Sturm says. "The acids that damage the skin, however, cause a serious disruption of its protective barrier and often cause dehydration. They accelerate the cell renewal and cause a long-term effect of the skin thinning out, as the cells cannot divide infinitely. This affects all skin types, but someone with very sensitive skin might suffer a faster negative response, which could lead to serious cases of hyperkeratosis."
While this sounds scary, rest assured that the acids you'll find on the market are largely regulated. "The critical point is the concentration used on our skin," says Dr. Mirela Mitan, CEO and founder of MMXV INFINITUDE. "The safety level in cosmetic products is if the concentrations are lower than 10% at final formulation (pH > 3.5) and when formulated, to avoid increasing sun sensitivity or to be used with daily sun protection. When applied by trained professionals, in beauty salons, the AHAs are safe at concentrations less than 30% at final formulation and a pH higher than 3. If applied according to a dermatologist's recommendation, an even higher concentration of AHA preparation could be considered safe to use."
So once you've found a good acid that works for your skin type, and made sure it's lower than 10% in concentration and above 3.5% pH level, the next step is making sure you apply it properly. "It’s very important to only apply acid at night and never use it on holiday when you’re exposed to the sun," Haydon warns. (Of course, you should wear SPF every day when using acids no matter where you are.)
If you think your skin is too sensitive, or you've had bad reactions in the past but still want that dullness-blasting exfoliation, there are alternatives to acids. "Vitamin C, or L-ascorbic acid, is an acid, but it’s not an AHA, so it won’t exfoliate your skin and will just give you a magic 'quick fix' of radiance," Haydon says. "It’s a wonderful ingredient, one of the most active of them all, and is increasingly beneficial to your skin with continued use."
Dr. Mitan has another suggestion: an alternative to AHAs called PHAs, for polyhydroxy acids, and bionic acids, which have similar effects to AHAs without the possibility of skin irritation," she explains. "PHA is more compatible with sensitive skin, has better moisturization activity, and enhances skin barrier function." So whether you stick with the popular acids in your skin-care routine, or you give their gentler alternatives a try, there are countless ways to get the glow this winter.
Prince Harry put Barack Obama to the test today, challenging him to a quickfire quiz on BBC Radio 4. Sure, we may be more accustomed to HRH and the former president discussing issues like state policy, mental health and immigration, but as part of Prince Harry's takeover of radio programme Today, we were treated to subjects like Suits and, erm, boxer shorts.
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Quizmaster Harry asked Obama which he missed the most, having now left the White House: the bowling alley or the cinema ("Cinema, although we call it a movie theater, but that's fine"), and which of the Friends ladies he preferred (Rachel).
Obama maintained his dignity by dodging the question of boxers or briefs, saying, "Sorry, we don't answer those questions," but confirmed his love for queen of soul Aretha Franklin (who sang at his presidential inauguration) over Tina Turner. On more royal matters, Obama cheekily said he'd choose William over Harry, Meghan Markle's show Suits over The Good Wife, and the Queen over Freddie Mercury's Queen (nice one, Obama).
For those of us who watch Netflix's The Crown, it is apparent how much the royals public-facing roles have changed since the beginning of Queen Elizabeth's reign. Just 25 years ago, we most likely wouldn't have had such candor and humor from a prince who is so close to the current monarch.
Fifth in line to the throne, guest editor Harry said of his takeover, "It's been a learning curve, but these are incredibly important topics that I think we all need to think about and be discussed." Throughout the show, Harry will be exploring subjects like the charity sector and the armed forces, two areas close to the prince's heart, plus an interview with his father Charles, Prince of Wales.
Harry's relationship with the Obamas is well documented, with the family helping him to promote this year's Invictus Games. Reports are circulating that the prince wants them to attend his upcoming wedding to Meghan. Somehow we don't think Donald Trump will be getting an invitation to the nuptials, or the quickfire quiz...
It's a strange, yet exciting, moment when you meet an Instagram friend in the flesh. You already know one another — but not really. Such was the case for me last month, when I met celebrity aesthetician Renée Rouleau at her pop-up at the W Hotel Downtown. The Austin-based miracle worker, who works with Demi Lovato, makes regular trips to L.A. and New York City, but this was our first time connecting outside of social media.
It was already exciting — let's just say it's clear why the friendly facialist ends up becoming close friends with her celeb clients. But then she gave me the chance to try a brand new facial that she has been fine-tuning for months. Enter: Her Thermo Infusion Tightening Facial. (Or, what I like to call her "ice facial.")
The facial in question is designed to raise and lower the temperature of the skin through a series of devices and masks to boost circulation, smooth rough texture, and reveal a bright, glowing complexion. This wasn't just an incredibly relaxing treatment, it was truly unlike anything I'd ever tried. Rouleau used a range of devices and products, from hot stones to an ultrasound to ice cubes of frozen serum (!) on my face. I've tried some interesting facials in the past, including an enzyme oxygen facial that made me look like a White Walker, but this had to be one of my favorites.
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Warning: This story, from the very first line, in fact,contains spoilers for Star Wars, Episode VIII: The Last Jedi.
There's a moment early on in The Last Jedi in which we almost lose Leia Organa (Carrie Fisher). The First Order has tracked what is left of the Resistance fleet through light speed, and Kylo Ren and his squadron of TIE fighters are attacking the main ship. Ren (née Solo), unable to murder his mother in cold blood in light of the guilt he feels about killing Han Solo in The Force Awakens, hesitates to take the final shot. The others, however, have no such scruples, and aim a proton torpedo at the command bridge, blowing Leia, Admiral Ackbar, and the rest of the rebel leaders into the dark of space.
"Okay," I said to myself (and possibly my boyfriend, sitting next to me — sorry, I'm that person) in the theater. "I guess this is how she goes. What a waste."
But here's the thing: Leia doesn't die. Gathering whatever connection to the Force she has left, she manages to push herself back inside the airlock to safety.
It's a surprising moment, especially given all the speculation in the year since Carrie Fisher's death, about how the film would handle the character's inevitable demise. It seemed like the perfect opportunity for Rian Johnson, Episode VIII 's director, to bid her adieu: since Fisher's death was unexpected, it stands to reason that they wouldn't have shot a death scene, so blowing her up could have been an easy fix. And yet, he chose not to.
It's a choice I've thought a lot about since I saw the film. Today, on the anniversary of Carrie Fisher's death, seems like a good time to reflect upon it further.
Leia's resuscitation is a moment of catharsis for an audience still mourning the passing of an icon. Fisher may be gone, but Leia lives in a galaxy far, far away; she can do what mere humans cannot. By keeping her alive in this scene, and throughout the movie, Johnson is ensuring that the last memories we have of the Princess-turned-General will be of her leading the good fight.
In an interview with Digital Spy earlier this month, Johnson said that he did not alter Fisher's scenes after her death. What you see in the movie is what was shot before the cast and crew heard the news.
"I felt like the best tribute to her would be to have just the best performance in this that worked the best it could in the movie," he said.
Aside from an end card that reads "In Loving Memory of Our Princess Leia," the film refrains from any of the usual tropes used to signal to the audience that the actor playing a beloved character has died. As Nate Jones wrote over at Vulture, "there are no moments of Leia pausing in a doorway, turning around and smiling, and the film doesn’t end with her pulling up next to Mark Hamill on a highway."
And yet, The Last Jedi still feels like a tribute to a remarkable female character who often felt short-changed in previous installments of the franchise. When we first met Leia in A New Hope, she was a princess taken captive on a diplomatic mission to Alderaan. Clad in the white robes of purity, she was an ingenue, albeit a spunky one, designed as an incentive for Luke Skywalker and Han Solo to join the fight against the evil Empire. The Empire Strikes Back tried to box her in as Han Solo's tolerant love interest. Though Return of the Jedi suggested that she too had the power to control and wield the Force, her abilities always took a backseat to Luke's, who — no matter what Yoda whispers to Obi Wan in the night —has always been framed as the last hope of the Jedi order.
In a move which suggested a new role for women in the Star Wars universe , The Force Awakens promoted Leia to the rank of General in the Resistance. In The Last Jedi, however, she finally comes into her own. With Han gone, Luke busy milking large monsters on Ach-To, and Kylo Ren seemingly beyond redemption, Leia is free to be the leader of men (in a purely platonic sense) she always could have been. Nothing makes the shift more clear than when she demotes Poe Dameron (Oscar Isaac), her favorite, Han-like rogue pilot, for pulling a brash move that got other good fighters killed. What would have appeared heroic in a previous film is finally called out for what it is: a bonehead maneuver by an impulsive man eager to show off.
But The Last Jedi also goes one step further in cementing Fisher's legacy: it lets her speak. Johnson has credited Fisher with some of the best lines in the film, (who else could come up with "you go, I’ve said it enough," as a substitute for "May the Force be with you"?) and reportedly gave her unprecedented leeway to shape her character.
“She was so conscious of her place in culture and what she meant to the female fans,” Johnson told Us Weekly. “She always wanted to stay true to that. She made sure young girls grew up seeing Princess Leia as a female hero.” Judging by the thousands of tweets still commemorating her impact even a year after her death, she succeeded.
All of this makes for a great send-off for a character who will no doubt die offscreen between Episode VIII and the upcoming Episode IX, which will be directed by J.J. Abrams. But it's also a cruel teaser of what could have been. Longtime Star Wars producer Kathleen Kennedy explicitly said that the final installment of the latest trilogy would have been Leia's time to shine.
Describing a moment after right after wrapping Fisher's scenes on The Last Jedi, Kennedy told Vanity Fair: “The minute she finished, she grabbed me and said, ‘I’d better be at the forefront of IX!’ Because Harrison was front and center on VII, and Mark is front and center on VIII. She thought IX would be her movie. And it would have been.”
By choosing not to kill off Leia in The Last Jedi, Johnson leaves us with that bittersweet possibility. And while Fisher will not appear in Episode IX, her rebellious spirit will live on in the new, strong female characters she paved the way for. Without Leia, there would never have been a Rey, a Jyn Erso, a Captain Phasma, a Rose Tico, or any of the other characters that seem to be causing certain white male fanboys so much distress.
Fisher's legacy carries on in other ways, too. In the last year, women have faced countless trials and obstacles. We've banded together and marched, voiced our pain on Twitter, and brought down dozens of powerful men. We are the rebellion. General Organa would be proud.
Rihanna is ready for an end to gun violence. She shared her opinion on Tuesday, December 26, after her cousin Tavon Kaiseen Alleyne was killed on Christmas evening, according to local police in Barbados, Rihanna’s home country.
Rihanna confirmed she was with Alleyne just hours before his death, writing on Instagram, “RIP cousin... can't believe it was just last night that I held you in my arms! Never thought that would be the last time I felt the warmth in your body!!! Love you always man!” Rihanna's powerful statement was accompanied by a series of sweet photos of the two.
Following her thoughtful tribute, she called for change, adding to the caption, “#Endgunviolence.” Rihanna’s mournful demand makes sense, as 21-year-old Alleyne was reportedly shot multiple times near his own home by an unknown assailant, who then fled the scene. Alleyne later died from his injuries and police continue to investigate the fatal crime.
While this is the first time Rihanna has spoken out against gun violence, it’s not the first time she has gotten political. Just last month, Rihanna defended Cyntoia Brown on Instagram. Sex trafficking survivor Brown, now 29, killed her 43-year-old a man who abused when she was 16, out of fear that he would murder her. Brown was sentenced to 51 years in prison, despite her young age at the time of the crime and the case’s disturbing details. Rihanna took issue with the court's handling of her sentencing.
For Christmas this year, Kim Kardashian West got richer, tried blue hair, and counted down the 25 days with a puzzle that left us all perplexed. But the best part of the holiday season for Kim wasn't her 920 shares in Disney stock — it was finally clearing her skin of the psoriasis symptoms that she's publicly battled for years.
Yesterday on her Instagram story, Kim shared an up-close shot of her lower-calf and ankle, informing her followers that the itchy red patches were just about gone. "OMG my psoriasis is almost gone!" she captioned the photo. "Best Christmas present!
Last year, Kim had all but given up, posting on her app: “I have that one patch on my right leg that is the most visible," she explained. "I don’t even really try to cover it that much anymore. Sometimes I just feel like it’s my big flaw and everyone knows about it, so why cover it? After this many years, I’ve really learned to live with it.”
Then last month, Kim told People that she started incrementally using light therapy treatments on her skin, and noticed seriously significant improvement. “I have been using this light — and I don’t wanna speak to soon because [the psoriasis] is almost gone — but I’ve been using this light [therapy] and my psoriasis is like 60 percent gone,” Kardashian told People in November.
Though Kim hasn't confirmed that it's that same light therapy that's led to such improvement, we can see that whatever she's doing is definitely making a difference. Here's hoping she'll officially share her Christmas miracle soon.
The Christmas shopping season is finally a thing of the past, bringing us that much closer towards waving goodbye to 2017 forever. Didn't get the exact gift you were hoping for this year? Turn that frown upside down, because now until the beginning of 2018 is your prime opportunity to shop brand name merch for lower than low prices. We're talking post-holiday, end-of-the-year, winter clearance sales galore!
If you're among the many who are in the market for new kitchen goods, consider yourself lucky. Several retailers are offering shoppers major discounts on everything from essential gadgets to small appliances. Yes, that KitchenAid 5-Quart Tilt-Head Stand Mixer you've been eyeing is also included.
Seeing that time is everything, we've taken it upon ourselves to search the web for you and gathered several options fit for every foodie. Click through to discover what all is available and when each sale ends.
From now until January 10, IKEA will be hosting its annual Winter Sale, offering up to 50% off select items online and in stores. Missing a few forks and knives? No problem — for just $10 you can score this Justera 20-piece, stainless steel flatware set to start the new year off right.
Digging through the archives of Dillard's sale and clearance section, we stumbled across a rare permanent price reduction on KitchenAid's popular 5-Quart Tilt-Head Stand Mixer. Rather than pay $379.99, you can take your pick from two discounted colors — green apple or watermelon — and spend only $299.99 instead.
The saying is true: Almost anything you're looking for can legit be found on Amazon — and now for even cheaper than before with its Year-End Deals sale. Markdowns are as high as 70% off or more, making items like the Nespresso Expert Espresso Machine by De'Longhi on sale for $154.99 a kitchen counter must-have.
Aside from hosting its After Christmas Sale, JCPenney has an active coupon code available online only for an extra 25% off a purchase of $100+ or an extra 20% off in general. But you've gotta be quick because the deal ends on December 28. While you're there, make sure to also check out the site's Red Zone, which includes a whopping 50%-80% off particular styles like this Tracee Ellis Ross for JCP 4-pc. Shot Glass Set now priced at $7.92.
Macy's After Christmas Sale may not last long, seeing that it ends on January 1, but that's more than enough time to cash in on huge savings. Practically nothing's off limits — value, regular-priced and clearance items are being let go for cheap, which means you can finally get exactly what you wanted this year. Can't decide where to start? Select kitchen electronics like this Tools of the Trade Nonstick 13-Pc. Cookware sets have seen a price reduction, making them a total steal.
Save up to 75% on hundreds of Williams Sonoma goods during the retailer's Winter Clearance Sale. That includes a guaranteed $150 off all Vitamix blenders (including the brand's fancy new Vitamix A3500 Ascent Series Blender in Copper for $649.95), 30% off Nespresso coffee and espresso brewers, plus 20% off various utensils and measuring tools.
Nordstrom's infamous Half-Yearly Sale is happening now through January 2 and features major discounts on kitchen accessories such as ceramic coasters, coffee mugs, dishes, and these adorable Pineapple Salt & Pepper Shakers for $21.75.
During the Overstock Christmas Clearance Event, shoppers can expect up to 70% off and free shipping to satisfy their cravings for more. This Le Chef Stainless Steel Silicone Tip 6-piece Utensil Set, for example, was reduced from $60.00 to $29.69.
Unlike some stores, Sur La Table's Winter Sale doesn't exclude clearance items, which for most of us warrants a celebration in and of itself. In addition to hefty discounts up to 60%, you can also walk away with free shipping when you spend at least $59. Interested in upping your kitchen knife game? This Wüsthof Classic 7-Piece Block Set was $629.00, but was dropped down to only $249.96 — not bad considering the free $25 gift card that comes along with it.
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The best way to usher in fresh and better things in the new year is to make room by purging your apartment of all the unwanted mess that's been taking up space in the past 12 months (or longer).
While we desperately want to simplify and get rid of things that no longer serve a purpose in our lives, it can be difficult to know where to start. To help you prep for a total home cleanse, we've tapped Erin Rooney Doland, editor-at-large at Unclutterer.com, to share the top 10 things you should bid farewell to before the end of the year. And, we're not asking you to dump everything in the trash: Doland has also included brilliant suggestions for recycling. Click through for a much tidier 2018.
Unwanted Toiletries
Do you have a drawer full of unopened travel-sized shampoos you've collected during your travels? Shampoo, conditioner, lotion, shaving cream, and other unopened toiletry items are often welcome donation items at homeless and women's shelters.
Or maybe you decided you really don't like a face wash after you've used it a few times. Doland recommends posting a photo of what you're looking to toss on social media. "What you no longer want might turn out to be a friend's favorite product."
illustrated by Tristan Offit.
Worn-Out Bedding And Towels
These well-used items can take up a lot of room in your closet. According to Doland, the best place to give them a second life is an animal shelter or vet's office. "Animals often need to be bathed in these facilities — they'll need tons of towels and blankets to find comfort in."
illustrated by Tristan Offit.
Spare Hangers
Unwanted hangers take up lots of space. If your closet is overflowing with metal ones from the dry cleaner, take them back to the cleaners — most have collection bins right inside the door.
illustrated by Tristan Offit.
Spices And Spice Packets
You might not notice this, but there are manufacturing codes on the bottle packaging of your store-bought spices. Most spice producers have an online feature where you can check the freshness of your specific container using the code. This will help you determine whether it's time to throw out the contents and recycle the bottles. Only repurchase spices as you need them.
illustrated by Tristan Offit.
Cookbooks
Are you keeping a cookbook around because you love a single recipe in it? Photocopy or photograph the recipes you like and donate the book to your library, favorite used bookstore, or friend who will take full advantage of every page.
illustrated by Tristan Offit.
Glasses
Old glass frames, with or without prescription lenses, might be cluttering up your drawer or nightstand. "If your eye doctor's office doesn't participate in a recycling program, stores like Target and Walmart will gladly take them," says Doland. "Approach the customer service desks to find out where the donation receptacles are located."
illustrated by Tristan Offit.
Outdoor Equipment
Biking, camping, and sports equipment are bulky and likely to be quite expensive. If they are in good condition, bring them to a consignment shop. If there aren't any sports gear resale shops in your area, selling the item online is the next best option. The last resort? Your local scouting troop might be open to donations.
illustrated by Tristan Offit.
Formal Wear
Evening gowns, tuxedos, dress shoes, and rhinestone jewelry take up tons of space and has very little everyday use. If you're looking to get rid of unwanted formal wear, Doland suggests approaching the theater department at your local high school to take them off your hands.
illustrated by Tristan Offit.
Framed Artwork
Is there artwork on your walls that no longer interests you? Try selling it on Craigslist. "If you don't want to deal with the hassle of selling the piece, contact your local library," says Doland. "Many libraries have artwork loans where you can check out works of art, just like books, and they accept donations to their collections."
illustrated by Tristan Offit.
Product Packaging
Unless you plan on reselling certain electronics you purchased (having the original packaging increases the item's worth), your product packaging should always be recycled. "Collecting cardboard is a fire hazard and takes up a lot of space unnecessarily," says Doland.
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Just when we thought we'd seen it all, 2017 was continuously one-upping itself. Each week packed what felt like entire year's worth of headlines. Even for fashion folk, the world of politics dominated the industry, leaving the braver designers the task of using their platform to comment on the country's current happenings, and the rest to provide an escape for us all. The result was several season's worth of clothes and accessories that, yes, made fashion fun again, but also made us say WTF.
This year the runway saw everything from flip-flop heels (thank you, Rihanna), to penis necklaces, to skirts that doubled as mats for your car, and that's just scratching the surface. 2017 was the year fashion got so extra, we needed a new word for extra. Of course, the industry has always had a knack for trolling, but 2017 saw the carrying out of visions that lacked any and all explanation.
But really, half the fun of attending Fashion Week (or streaming it from afar) is watching the all the wildest moments on and off the runway, and then trying to make sense of it all. Like, how does one explain a bra that doubles as a handbag? Or getting fashion inspiration from a coccoon? No fashion degree could prepare us for some of the artifacts that models so nonchalantly strut down the catwalk in ( ahem — we're looking at you, Alessandro). So, without further ado, click through the slideshow ahead to see some of the weirdest runway looks from 2017.
Maison Martin Margiela Whoever said the industry never sleeps clearly hasn't met John Galliano.
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Calvin Klein 205W39NYC They're like socks for your arms.
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VFILES So, how 'bout them Mets?
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Balenciaga No, they didn't offer oil changes as a swag bag perk. But we'll take two of those skirts, please.
Photo: Victor VIRGILE/Gamma-Rapho/Getty Images.
Saint Laurent Paris Has anyone seen our loofa?
Photo: Victor VIRGILE/Gamma-Rapho/Getty Images.
Adam Selman Make The Canadian Tuxedo New York (Again)?
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Fenty Puma by Rihanna Only Rihanna could make us seriously wonder if we're ready for high-heeled flip-flops. Damn you, bad gal!
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Vaquera Hey, at least you'll never have to fumble with an MTA machine again.
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Ashish Help! An Anglerfish has made it onto the runway — and it's wearing sequins!
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Helmut Lang This bra doubles as a handbag, so if you'd like to tell us aliens aren't real, go ahead.
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Natasha Zinko It may not be scientifically proven that two jeans are better than one, but hey, they sure make for great hip warmers.
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Christopher Kane Don't quote us on this, but we're pretty sure these are dishwasher safe.
Photo: Victor VIRGILE/Gamma-Rapho/Getty Images.
Moschino When he says he likes flowers, too.
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Namilia Try a career in fashion, they said. It'll be fun, they said.
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Rick Owens Oh, Rick... Let's just say: If you're reading this, it's too late.
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Balenciaga Crocs: the roaches of shoes.
Photo: Victor VIRGILE/Gamma-Rapho/Getty Images.
Jacquemus Behold, the tiniest bags you have ever seen.
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You always want what you can’t have — especially when it comes to beauty products. That’s why we’re getting the inside scoop from your favorite retailers onwhat’s selling out right now, how to sign up for waitlists, and where to go to find the next best thing. Because if everyone’s buying it, you know it has to be good.
Some cosmetics come with a reputation that precedes them. Think: Nars' Orgasm Blush, Maybelline's Great Lash Mascara, or MAC's Ruby Woo Lipstick. These products tend to be widely available, universally flattering, and beloved by both professional artists and novices alike.
When it comes to highlighter, there's Bobbi Brown's Shimmer Brick — a five-color glow giver that rose to popularity long before strobing became a mainstay on Instagram. Since the brick's debut in 2003, the highlighter has remained one of the brand's most popular items. In fact, it's so popular, that one Shimmer Brick is sold every minute somewhere on earth.
We aren't at all surprised that the product has stood the test of time: Because of its five-color range, the shades can be mixed together or worn separately as highlighter, eyeshadow, or blush. Plus, the brick comes in four different color variations, so whether you're looking for pink, rose, coral, or bronze shimmer, there's something in this line-up for everyone. Pick one up now, or simply shop our multi-shimmer picks at every price point, ahead.
This highlighter is a culmination of Becca's best-selling shades: Bronzed Amber, Moonstone, Opal, Rose Gold, and Topaz. Swirl all five hues together for a custom glow or use a small highlighter brush (we like this one) to wear each shade separately.
When ColourPop launched the brand's first limited-edition tie-dye highlighters, each shade sold out in under a minute. Thankfully, Glazen made it into the brand's permanent collection. Swirl the mosaic of colors together for a pale gold highlight that can be applied with a brush for sheer sparkle or with fingers for a high-intensity glow.
Don't be fooled by the word "blush" in this product's name — each shade is packed with shimmer, making them excellent choices to adorn your cheekbones. Plus, the product doubles as a four-color eyeshadow, too.
This pigmented, five-color highlighter is designed to act as a highlighter, eyeshadow, or radiant bronzer. We like dusting the two lightest shades onto our cheekbones and tapping the bronze shades onto our lids to define our eyes.
One layer of this highlighter will give your cheekbones a lit-from-within glow, but once you venture into layering you'll get a metallic highlight that'll blind your neighbors.
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Lucia Mee, an 18-year-old from Ballycastle in Northern Ireland, is the youngest person on the Queen's New Years Honors list.
Mee, who has undergone three liver transplants after being diagnosed with autoimmune hepatitis at a young age, receives a British Empire Medal for her work raising awareness of organ donation.
Mee said she hopes press coverage of her honor will encourage more people to discuss organ donation with their loved ones. "The fact that I’m here and really able to do this is down to the fact that there are organ donors," she told the PA. "If people know their loved ones’ wishes, they are more likely to say yes to organ donation."
The New Years Honors list is designed to recognize "the achievements and service of extraordinary people across the United Kingdom." A total of 1,123 people have received an award in this year's list, of whom 551 (or 49%) are women.
The government has also said that around 9% of people on this year's list come from a BAME background, which is the same proportion as last year according to The Guardian.
Among the inspiring women recognised in the list are five members of England's World Cup-winning cricket team, including captain Heather Knight, who receives a CBE.
Former British Vogue editor Alexandra Shulman and prolific author Jilly Cooper are both awarded CBEs. Grace Ladoja, who manages Skepta, is made an MBE.
Ballet dancer-turned- Strictly Come Dancing judge Darcey Bussell is made a Dame. Cathy Warwick, former chief executive of the Royal College of Midwives, and Clare Marx, former president of the Royal College of Surgeons, also receive Damehoods.
Though the famous faces will inevitably attract more attention, the vast majority of people recognized in the list carry out their work outside of the public eye. Among them is Aina Khan, a lawyer from Hertfordshire who campaigns to ensure all marriages in the U.K. are officially registered, in order to offer full legal protection to wives and children.
Speaking to the BBC about her OBE, Khan said: "You probably imagine it will be middle-aged English men getting it the most, but when the envelope arrives it's a really special feeling, because you realise it's actually something that's real and happens to ordinary people."
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In Refinery29'sSweet Digs, we take a look inside the sometimes small, sometimes spacious homes of millennial city dwellers.Today, fashion news writer Channing Hargrove shows us around her teeny-tiny studio in Harlem.
There are those among us who might always save the best of the best for special occasions — the nicest china, the crystal barware, the designer heels. But for R29 fashion news writer Channing Hargrove, every day is worthy of Champagne. "When I was growing up, we had this room you weren’t allowed to go in unless company came to visit," Channing says. "Obviously, you don’t have that luxury in New York City, so I try to treat myself as company."
The result? A luxe, fashion-centric mini studio in the heart of Harlem, where a bottle of bubbly is always in the fridge and there's a lush pink couch ready to seat a (small) crowd. The only problem might just be the size — but somehow, Channing has made it work for two years. It helps that her utilities are included in the $1,675 rent.
Watch the video to see Channing give a tour of her tiny apartment, then click ahead to shop some of her picks.
So how did you find this place? "I do not recommend this, but I used a broker, just because finding a studio in New York City is super, super hard. I could pay a couple hundred more and have a bigger, true one-bedroom or even just a bigger studio, but I work in media, and I've been laid off twice. I wanted a rent I could afford even if I went freelance."
How many apartments did you see before you settled on this one? "We saw a lot, actually. We saw maybe 15. There was one I really, really loved that was also in Harlem, but it was too far from the train. This one is three blocks from the train, and I have really good bars and restaurants in the area. It just feels really homey to me."
How did you know it was the one? "I knew it was the one when I saw the exposed brick wall. I've lived in New York almost six years, and having exposed brick has been on my bucket list since I’ve moved here. I was like, okay, I guess we’ll just have to compromise on the space. My last studio was bigger, but not as nice. I feel like they cut a lot of corners with my last place, and this one, when I walked in, I noticed the baseboards were original, the caulking in the bathroom is super neat. Little things like that really made the difference for me."
What were some of the initial moving costs? "The broker’s fee was one month’s rent, plus a security deposit, and then the landlord, because I didn’t have my own line of credit, she wanted two months upfront instead of one. My dad helped me do that, and I’m not ashamed to say it. I wouldn’t have been able to afford the broker’s fee and essentially three months’ rent."
How big is your place? "I lived in a studio before this, and I think that was around 500 square feet. This place is smaller; I think it’s like maybe 300."
That's so small. How do you stay so organized? "I don’t pile things in my apartment. My bed sits up pretty high, so I'll shove things under there. The goal for me is not to pile things, but to style things. I have little vignettes. I'll put nail polishes on display, or if I want to display tickets and cards, I have like this thing on the wall where I'll collage them. But really, I edit things down all the time. I have a one-in-one-out rule for my closet. My shoe bins underneath my bed, same thing. I have to be very conscious about what’s in my apartment."
Tell me about your gallery wall. "My gallery wall changes depending on moods. Right now, there are shopping bags on it and a Diana Ross poster. But when I first moved in, there was a different poster, and jackets, now shoes are there."
How did you get everything to hang on there? "I got this double-sided concrete stick tape, I don’t want to nail anything into brick. I figured, the tape is all-weather, and it's made for the outside of a building, so it should be able to work for a brick wall. Nothing has fallen down yet, so that's a good sign."
For as long as I can remember, I’ve always felt stupid. It's quite difficult for me to admit this out loud, but it’s a feeling that has been there since I was about 11. I have dyspraxia. In very simple terms, this means there are lots of things I struggle with. Really basic things, that even children are capable of doing: dancing to music, buttoning clothes, riding a bike, catching a ball, walking in a straight line without falling over. That last one’s a real pet peeve. Even my best friend’s toddler, who hasn’t yet had his second birthday, is more steady on his feet than I am.
Classified as a learning disability, dyspraxia is usually picked up by educational staff who have contact with multiple children on a daily basis and who are trained to identify developmental problems. Once this issue has been raised, the pupil is tested by a specialist and then once the diagnosis is received additional support is provided.
I didn’t grow up knowing I was dyspraxic. My problems were only discovered at 21 after I had a mental break down. By this point, I’d failed at university because I couldn’t keep track of when and where my classes and exams were and, feeling ashamed, I had left the city I’d grown up in without letting anyone know where I was. In my head I was useless – worse than useless – and everyone’s life would be better if I weren’t in the way ruining things. When I left, I genuinely had no intention of returning – I wanted a new life, where no one knew how much of a failure I was.
According to the NHS website, there are a number of symptoms associated with dyspraxia that vary from person to person. Alongside problems with coordination, additional symptoms can include difficulties in concentration, difficulties following instructions, poor organization, and memory, alongside behavioral problems and self-esteem issues that arise from the symptoms. On top of that, problems with voice and sound control, as well as muscle weakness, can occur in those with dyspraxia.
Emotionally, there is an overwhelming feeling of failure and frustration as you live your life trapped in a body that doesn’t work properly.
A friend recently asked me to describe to her how my dyspraxia feels, which is a difficult thing to do. Emotionally, there is an overwhelming feeling of failure and frustration as you live your life trapped in a body that doesn’t work properly. Your brain understands what you need to do and the basic principles of how to do things, but when you try to implement the theory it is impossible and it feels like only you don’t know why.
An example of this is learning to swim. From the age of six people attempted to teach me how to swim. I understood the basic principle, you lie on the water kicking your legs and moving your arms in a scooping motion to paddle through the pool. Despite that, it took an additional five years, and hundreds of pounds worth of group and private lessons for me to even achieve five meters of basic doggy paddling, by which point my 10-year-old peers were on their 25 meters badges using front crawl – a stroke I still haven’t managed to conquer.
At school, my teachers labeled me as lazy – which feels ironic considering that I had to work twice as hard as other people to complete basic tasks. That is particularly the case for those who struggle with organization and memory problems. At secondary school ( for ages 11-16), for example, I remember it was particularly difficult juggling nine subjects. I’d constantly lose text books, forget equipment such as P.E. clothes and pencil cases, and even though I’d do all of the homework the teachers would never get it because I’d forget to turn it in.
Despite all of this, I did quite well academically at school and eventually returned to college to get an English literature degree, followed by a journalism MA. I now make a living doing a job that I love. But the low self-esteem associated with my dyspraxia persists; the psychological ramifications of years I spent being told I wasn’t good enough remain. Following years of bullying from my peers for being clumsy, I still struggle to trust people. I’ve also got an intense phobia of being watched.
Not being able to coordinate my body is still something I’m always incredibly insecure about, but my response to these anxieties continues to evolve.
These days, my condition is manageable thanks to the support I received from healthcare specialists, and the understanding of my family once I’d been diagnosed. As well as counseling to help control my anxiety and depression, I also received occupational therapy support from a neuropsychologist. In attending monthly sessions, I was not only able to identify when the symptoms of my dyspraxia worsen (when I’m tired, stressed or angry) but was taught how implementing basic routines can help minimize the most difficult of symptoms, including forgetfulness and disorganization. These routines can be as simple as making sure keys always remain in the same place, and taking 15 minutes in the morning to plan what I need to do with my day.
I’m still clumsy, and it appears there’s nothing that can be done about that. But, the support available helped address some of the more frustrating limitations of having dyspraxia. Not being able to coordinate my body is still something I’m always incredibly insecure about, but my response to these anxieties continues to evolve, and I no longer feel stupid.
I'm not able to tell you where I would be if my problems had been recognized sooner. But I can’t understand why diagnosing dyspraxia and other cognitive problems in young children is being criticized. If additional support is being made available to learners from a younger age, support that prevents them from going through life feeling stupid and worthless like I did in the past, well, surely that can only be a good thing.
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Hopefully you're armed with some good ol' Christmas cash because Boxing Day is upon us. And leading the post-holiday sale charge is the sale we've been waiting for since summer bid its farewell. Discounting almost all of its late summer and fall stock, Zara is swooping in just in time to save us from a long winter season of the same coat rotation. All of those oversized sweaters, novelty puffer coats, and multi-colored rainbow scarves are on mega-sale to keep your closet fresh for the next few months. Even those thigh-high boots you've considered investing in are so satisfyingly affordable, you'll suddenly feel like no trend is off the table.
At press time, some of the store's most coveted pieces are already selling out (meaning go-time is NOW). So grab that leftover cash and click on for 35 of our favorite picks from Zara's end-of-the-year sale.
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